Now forming the first Circles in Stockholm

Meet people you'll actually want to see again.

AGAINLI matches you with a small group of people we think you'll genuinely click with, then brings you together weekly across different experiences for four weeks, giving real friendship time to form.

Find your Circle How it works

Free to join, wherever you live. No payment until a Circle is ready for you.

Six adults sitting close together around a small courtyard table in afternoon light, talking and laughing

A Circle

Six compatible people · weekly meetups · 4 weeks

The problem

Adults don't struggle to meet people. They struggle to see them again.

After school and university, the structures that made friendship easy disappear: proximity, repetition and unplanned time together. One good conversation at an event rarely survives the following Tuesday. AGAINLI rebuilds those structures on purpose.

Discover → Build → Belong

A path from strangers to people you count on.

Four adults talking on low couches in a softly lit living room in the early evening, one mid gesture while the others listen

Discover

Answer a short compatibility assessment. We look at life stage, friendship intent, social style, lifestyle and practical fit, not photos.

Five adults standing around a high table on a city terrace at golden hour, drinks in hand and mid laugh

Build

Meet the same Circle of six weekly for four weeks, across a sequence we plan for you: Spark, Play, Open, Belong. Familiarity is what turns acquaintances into friends.

Two friends hugging goodbye on a sunlit street while a third waits nearby

Belong

Keep the Circle going on your own terms, and join another when you're ready to widen your world again.

Five adults cooking together in a home kitchen, chopping and stirring side by side

Matching, not browsing

You don't scroll through people. We compose the group.

AGAINLI looks at how you and every other member are likely to get on (life stage, friendship intent, social style, lifestyle, practical fit, shared interests), then builds the whole table of six around balance and common ground, not just one good pairing.

Your answers are private and used only for matching.
Every Circle is put together deliberately, never auto-filled.
If the fit isn't right, we wait. Nobody is placed to fill a seat.

What a Circle does

Dinner is one evening. A friendship needs more than one kind of evening.

Circles meet across different settings, because you learn different things about people over a walk than you do over a table. AGAINLI curates the sequence and books the place, working around the practical things you tell us: your evenings, how far you will travel, your average spend range and any dietary or access needs. You never have to organise anything.

Five adults sharing plates and conversation at a warmly lit neighbourhood restaurant table — Meals

Four adults leaning in over coffee at a café table by a window in daylight — Coffee

Five adults walking and laughing together on a park path in late afternoon light, one casually tossing a ball — Activities

Four adults comparing the bowls they have just thrown at a pottery workshop table — Workshops

Three friends laughing together at a warm, retro bowling alley between turns — Games

Every Circle is different, because every group is.

Week 1

Spark

A cafe at midday or a bar in the evening. Easy first ground.

Week 2

Play

A conversational activity we choose, so the group does something together.

Week 3

Open

A calmer, conversation-led experience where people go a little deeper.

Week 4

Belong

Brunch or lunch at midday, dinner in the evening. A table, at the end of the run.

Why AGAINLI

Less random. More likely to click.

A bar, a party or a networking night gives you whoever happens to be there, once. AGAINLI gives you a group selected around your profile, an experience built for that group, and four weeks together so connection has a real chance.

People chosen around you

AGAINLI builds your Circle from your profile, preferences, availability and non-sensitive compatibility signals, so you are not walking into a room of whoever happened to show up.

Experiences chosen for the group

AGAINLI picks each meetup to make conversation easier for these six people, from meals and coffee to activities, workshops, cooking and games.

Four weeks, not one night

The same six people meet four times. Familiarity gets long enough to turn into something real, which one evening never does.

No browsing. No organising.

AGAINLI does the matching, the planning and the booking around your evenings, travel and spend range. You decide whether to show up.

Membership

Free to join. $19-29 a month once a Circle is ready.

Nobody pays to sit on a waitlist. Membership begins when you accept a Circle offer and can be cancelled at any time.

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Not ready for four weeks yet?

Try Again once.

One standalone Spark meetup with a small group, on selected Wednesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays. A single $9 ticket, once per calendar month, with the group and the place chosen by us. What you order there is separate. One meetup can introduce you. Four weeks is where something real can start.

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Join

Stockholm first. Then wherever you are.

Joining is free, and you can create your profile straight away rather than waiting for an invitation. In Stockholm that puts you in line for a Circle. In cities we have not opened yet, your profile waits with you, and cities launch in the order they reach enough compatible people.